Devotee-sister ;
Mota, What should we do to calm the oppositional feeling between us?
Pujya Shree Mota ;
Goodness will not express or expand in our lives without constant annihilation of narrowness of our mind and nature. We should be constantly looking for ways and making an effort to catch and destroy, the narrowness and crookedness of our mind and nature. This requires close watch and analysis of our nature and mind.
No body is our enemy or worth taking revenge in this life. It is entirely appropriate for us, if this kind of feeling does not arise in our mind towards any soul. You should behave in such a way, so that the life becomes peaceful and smooth. You should not give any reason, for him to agitate or point a finger at you even in the future.
Continue to work on your strong opinions and recite God's name as much as possible, otherwise two wheels of the car will not work in harmony, and create trouble for you. When you accept the meeting of two souls, then definitely learn to harmonize and understand the true meaning of harmony.
Lagne hajo mangalam ( લગ્ને હજો મંગલમ )
Edition 1; page 112.
My two cents ---
Even though this is addressed to wife in her relationship with her husband, opposite is also equally true. I think this is true in any relationship.
Ashwin
