Lots of people help me and do my work. Even though these works are done with love this soul may not be able to reciprocate. Some souls feel that we do so much work for him and yet he does not appreciate or reciprocate our work or help. Some even go to the extent of saying" he goes to some people's homes and never comes to ours,""' he receives some with love and yet he does not understand us ". Different souls have different kind of thoughts and comparisons in their mind regarding this soul.
Nobody should respect or honor this soul. He never asks for anything. Do not do his work and if you really want to do it then only do it, keeping in your mind that the sole purpose is your own life's development. No body should expect any returns from this soul. Do not keep any mental expectation that since we did this for him, he should reciprocate in certain fashion. I request this to all my swajans who have come in my contact by the grace of God.
I will not feel bad if no one calls on me and there is no expectation for this association in my heart either. By the grace of God our ways are awkward. We do not follow the notion that we must reciprocate the works done for us. Some people say that we do so much for mota and yet he never listens to us. Some times they even use harsh language and utter inappropriate words.
Any soul that feels that way should stop completely associating with us. Only souls that feel our association will help them to progress in their lives and that also with knowledge and concrete experiences, should associate with us. If you want to embrace then do it with conviction and not just for namesake. Association for namesake is not only futile but can be troublesome.
So all of you need to do the things for yourselves. If we ask you to do anything for us then you have the right to scorn us. If you exercise that right, we will still love you and be joyous.
Pujya Shree Mota
Jivan Sopan
from the preface
Edition 3; page 9 - 10.
Nobody should respect or honor this soul. He never asks for anything. Do not do his work and if you really want to do it then only do it, keeping in your mind that the sole purpose is your own life's development. No body should expect any returns from this soul. Do not keep any mental expectation that since we did this for him, he should reciprocate in certain fashion. I request this to all my swajans who have come in my contact by the grace of God.
I will not feel bad if no one calls on me and there is no expectation for this association in my heart either. By the grace of God our ways are awkward. We do not follow the notion that we must reciprocate the works done for us. Some people say that we do so much for mota and yet he never listens to us. Some times they even use harsh language and utter inappropriate words.
Any soul that feels that way should stop completely associating with us. Only souls that feel our association will help them to progress in their lives and that also with knowledge and concrete experiences, should associate with us. If you want to embrace then do it with conviction and not just for namesake. Association for namesake is not only futile but can be troublesome.
So all of you need to do the things for yourselves. If we ask you to do anything for us then you have the right to scorn us. If you exercise that right, we will still love you and be joyous.
Pujya Shree Mota
Jivan Sopan
from the preface
Edition 3; page 9 - 10.