Swajan : Mota, I did understand from your previous talk regarding praying to God and asking for His help to recognize and remove my faults. Is it harmful if I still see other's faults?
Pujya Shree Mota : You are the one who experience harm first. Is it less harm when you experience sadness yourself? Moreover we experience boredom and our peace is disturbed. This boredom and disturbed peace is the biggest harm and this is the result of these vibrations. We get uneasy and agitated when we think of other's faults. Moreover our mind gets agitated and angry at the person whose faults are seen and thought. Our mind gives utmost importance to the person against whom we are angry or irritated. At that time our mind is active in finding faults of others and sends the vibration of these faults to them. This results in the impressions in the mind of other person of similar accusatory vibrations regarding us. We plant the seeds of our future pain in the mind of others. We are unaware of this subtle process.
Swajan : This is really extraordinary and subtle matter.
Pujya Shree Mota : Moreover when we see or think contrariwise of others, not only we make them unhappy we get unhappy ourselves. In this manner we spread these negative vibrations around larger and larger atmosphere and with increased intensity. So the real way to remove faults is to be free of faults ourselves. It is a matter of ignorance to be restless with anger for somebody else's faults. If we understand the conditions of the set up of the circumstances with appropriate knowledge and understanding in a matter of fact manner, we will not be unhappy. Do not get agitated as it is the characteristic of our worldly affairs to have faults.
Pujya Shree Mota
Sukkha No Marg
Edition 7: page 16 - 17.
Pujya Shree Mota : You are the one who experience harm first. Is it less harm when you experience sadness yourself? Moreover we experience boredom and our peace is disturbed. This boredom and disturbed peace is the biggest harm and this is the result of these vibrations. We get uneasy and agitated when we think of other's faults. Moreover our mind gets agitated and angry at the person whose faults are seen and thought. Our mind gives utmost importance to the person against whom we are angry or irritated. At that time our mind is active in finding faults of others and sends the vibration of these faults to them. This results in the impressions in the mind of other person of similar accusatory vibrations regarding us. We plant the seeds of our future pain in the mind of others. We are unaware of this subtle process.
Swajan : This is really extraordinary and subtle matter.
Pujya Shree Mota : Moreover when we see or think contrariwise of others, not only we make them unhappy we get unhappy ourselves. In this manner we spread these negative vibrations around larger and larger atmosphere and with increased intensity. So the real way to remove faults is to be free of faults ourselves. It is a matter of ignorance to be restless with anger for somebody else's faults. If we understand the conditions of the set up of the circumstances with appropriate knowledge and understanding in a matter of fact manner, we will not be unhappy. Do not get agitated as it is the characteristic of our worldly affairs to have faults.
Pujya Shree Mota
Sukkha No Marg
Edition 7: page 16 - 17.
