Sadhak need not waste the feelings of love. When this kind of feeling is produced by remembrance of loved one or towards me, it is very useful to utilize this feelings to increase the intensity of naam-smaran or prayers or for introspection. It needs to be used with clear understanding and purpose. We should use these feelings during conversation in such a way that the other person gets the heartfelt and proper understanding of the purpose. It is best if other person feels that your words are spoken with goodwill and heartfelt sincerity even if other person is not convinced about the subject matter.
Whatever sadhak has to say should not be shallow and superfluous but it must express his inner feelings. It is quite different when we say something guided by our nature or feelings and when we say something with awareness and understanding that we are using the feelings for a specific purpose. For us it is better to follow second path.
Pujya Shree Mota
Jivan Manthan
Edition 3; page 126.
Whatever sadhak has to say should not be shallow and superfluous but it must express his inner feelings. It is quite different when we say something guided by our nature or feelings and when we say something with awareness and understanding that we are using the feelings for a specific purpose. For us it is better to follow second path.
Pujya Shree Mota
Jivan Manthan
Edition 3; page 126.
