We should take appropriate care to understand others as much as possible. It is important to take care regarding injustice to anyone. There is no necessity to blow up the matter when it is trivial, and there is no need to feel bad about it either. We will never truly understand the heart of the other person without getting rid of our habit of unnecessary involving the mind in contrariwise manner. Our understanding is the only true understanding is also one huge impasse. It is entirely possible that other person's understanding is true. For this reason, Bhava of Goodness should spring within us towards other person with different understanding. We will continue to stumble in the darkness until we have complete understanding of this matter.
Pujya Shree Mota
Jivan Yog, Part 1
Edition 1; Page 127.