One needs to find the defects in one's nature and temperament; accept it and then make an immense effort to be free from it. If one does that, one always finds the ways for further progress. Human beings understand and measure each other with their own measure in dealings with each other's actions and behavior, as long as both have sentient nature. The human being that does not have instant comprehension or does not possess the art of behavior in dealings with each other appropriately in life and relationships, will always produce contrariwise thoughts in other person. That human being will never be able to satisfy others with his behavior. When such a soul has no reaction in his heart about it and does not feel pain intensely in his heart from his shortcomings; he will not be able to progress from his situation.
Pujya Shree Mota
Jivan Manthan
Edition 3; Page 242.
