It is very important that we can communicate with each other with open mind and heart without any fear and reservations. It is also imperative that we do not get pressured and awed by the swajan. It is our sacred duty to uplift our swajan. It is also our duty to wake up our swajan with repeated calls.
If the swajan feels bad then obviously he does not want to be uplifted. We should not fear about upsetting (causing dukkha) our swajan by our call. We can have understanding of his nature by the reaction to our call. We should be alarmed by his reaction and likings. There is no way anybody can be guided towards the path of the development of life without his cooperation and will. It is duty of the spouse to inspire, help and provide sympathy. Our behavior is appropriate and praiseworthy if we create the situation where the path of the spouse gets easier without interruptions, obstacles and it
creates enthusiasm in the spouse.
Pujya Shree Mota
Jivan Manthan
Edition 3; Pages 134 - 135.
If the swajan feels bad then obviously he does not want to be uplifted. We should not fear about upsetting (causing dukkha) our swajan by our call. We can have understanding of his nature by the reaction to our call. We should be alarmed by his reaction and likings. There is no way anybody can be guided towards the path of the development of life without his cooperation and will. It is duty of the spouse to inspire, help and provide sympathy. Our behavior is appropriate and praiseworthy if we create the situation where the path of the spouse gets easier without interruptions, obstacles and it
creates enthusiasm in the spouse.
Pujya Shree Mota
Jivan Manthan
Edition 3; Pages 134 - 135.