Our peace and easiness should not be disturbed by the conflict with someone. We should not create the conflict knowingly and not be the cause of the conflict. We need to be more peaceful and have happy mind with awareness if such conflict happen from some incident without any particular reason. Know that equanimity (SAMATA—સમતા), is not attained without the presence of peace and happiness. We can understand the real reasons of the conflict much better if there is peace, happiness and SAMATA - even to some extent - in us. It will not work to ignore the conflict. Take part in it with enthusiasm and accept it with peace and happiness. Conflict is for our training.
Pujya Shree Mota
Jivan Manthan
Edition 3; Pages 141 - 142.