Whatever happens in Sansar, the root cause is within us. It is not in someone else. They are just the Nimitta (destiny).
So, when something like that happens in Sansar, do not let your mind feel conflicted and unhappy. Understand that this is just the Nimitta and do not let the mind get disturbed. Only then, the mind becomes more powerful. We can learn the art of balanced mind and to be separate from circumstances. How can the human being realize, how will be his mind in conflicting circumstances without experiencing conflicts? Human being must understand his mind and Prakruti first.
Human being must learn to separate his mind from attachments etc, that he perceives during daily life while living in Sansar. Mind has not learned this by itself. Whatever troubles are experienced in Sansar, apparently appear to be troubles but these difficulties are to learn new things, gain new knowledge and for experiencing troubles. For this reason, any Jiva who considers this troubles as his Guru, only such Jivas understand the real purpose of the difficulties. Only such Jivas grasp the real purpose of the difficulties and are blessed to receive Chetna-Prana-Energy from these circumstances.
Sansar is never attached to us. We are attached to Sansar. Sansar is fixed in our within and external sansar and its events are merely expressed form of Sansar within. If we understand this and convince our mind, we will not find anything unusual in the outside expression of the Sansar.
Pujya Shree Mota
Jivan Yog, Edition 1,
Part 1, Page 99 - 100.
